1/15/2026

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Turn Towards Approach

Open Hearted Authentic Self

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Kirk: He needed to have a craying boy moment.

He wished not to have to grow up.

Scott: How old are you now? 

12?

Who taught you to be a man?

My mother

Scottt: Does she have a dick? Can she teach you how to be a man.

No

 

Majestic Kirk says:

It is OK that you do not know how to move forward now.

Enjoy your journey because you are not where you once were and yo are not where you need to be.

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Joseph checked in late.

It turned out he needed help from the men in the group.

After looking at every face, with their out most empathy.

Scott asked him, what do yo feel?

I feel it in my stomach.

I feel grief.

I have been thinking about my son.

Kirk's sadness made it worse.

This brought a lot of grief for Scott too.

Scott: I do not think one get over the death of a child.

It seems really unfair for you to have to struggle with things you did not ask for.

All addiction comes from not being able to regulate your emotions.

Because your parents never did for you when they were supposed to.

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Mike checks in late too. (He was able to reject a guy).

Andre checks in late...


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