Developmental Stories

 Michael Roberto Confession   Hard time asking for help. He needs to learn how to ask for help. He was about to make a zoom sex call. Where do you feel that in your body. Everybody who hear me saying this may think I am an idiot. Do you want the men to give you some kindness? Randy Dygert Confession He feels he is not good enough to be with us in the group. Scott: All we need from you is that you are present. Genesis Chapter 1 God says "is not good for the mean to be alone." Ken's Story The Hole in the Wall. He felt strangled by his closeness to his mother.  He preferred a beating instead of another Christian sermon from his dad. James Thompson: A Christian leader who said it was OK for teenagers  to masturbate.

Scott had a rant about his wife's back condition and the insurance situation. Mike Robert was triggered by Kirk based on a picture Scott posted where he is pitting frosting in his mouth. Kirk commented on Scott being able to take a big load.  Mike got triggered in the sense that he became aroused and he ended up acting out. Kirk was welcomed to tell his story and why he feels like cracking sexual jokes all the time. Then, Mike was invited to tell his story of performing oral sex on guys since he was 15. And so the image of the frosting , plus Kirk's comment triggered him. I want to have a group where men can have real discussions bu telling what they really feel and then love each other (disrupt and repair). We change emotionally and relationally. At home we did not have repair.