Developmental Stories

 Andre The body that was never enough. Henry: What if you are enough even if your dad did not tell you so?  Is that possible? It could also mean that the people who thought you were not enough are wrong. Each one of us will tell Andre what we think of him. After the virtual hug, how do you feel? Kirk Henry: tell us more about this grief. He is worn out from life, although he feels he is going in a very direction now. He was let go from a very academic church. So he feels better since he has been out of that environment. He is not over his relationship yet, an 8 months, first time relationship. Henry: Men are about "who we are with and with whom we are." What are you doing with all this lack of belonging? I have become an introvert. I seminary I try to speak to people today, but it is all becoming more complex.  There is no doubt in my mind that if I become a Christian figure.... Henry: Busyness is not as good as an orgasm. So, be curious Kirk. I feel so fucking lonely. He...

 Kirk Scared. Trouble with his preaching work. Henry: What is most scary?  Mike He feels it is God's punishment. He does not know why things happen. He knows we are supposed to rejoice. The first word that comes to his mind is punishment . He hopes he can change it.

 Check in Turn Towards Approach Open Hearted Authentic Self ---------------------------------------------------- Kirk: He needed to have a craying boy moment. He wished not to have to grow up. Scott: How old are you now?  12? Who taught you to be a man? My mother Scottt: Does she have a dick? Can she teach you how to be a man. No   Majestic Kirk says: It is OK that you do not know how to move forward now. Enjoy your journey because you are not where you once were and yo are not where you need to be. ---------------------------------- Joseph checked in late. It turned out he needed help from the men in the group. After looking at every face, with their out most empathy. Scott asked him, what do yo feel? I feel it in my stomach. I feel grief. I have been thinking about my son. Kirk's sadness made it worse. This brought a lot of grief for Scott too. Scott: I do not think one get over the death of a child. It seems really unfair for you to have to struggle with things you did...

His dad used obscene language when describing his mom VHS with porn ejaculation caused him to throw up ?His father's naked pic His fucked up dad's friend credit card fraud Him in his limo with a girl doing a lap top HE was 14 when his father asked a woman to have sex with him. Scott: How do you feel right now? Nomneness Grief I feel hate for myself Scott: Say  more about that Do you feel a conflict between arousal and disgust? There is a lot of that in these vignettes There is also a lot of violence What kind of porn do you watch? A man humiliating a woman Say that again: rough sex, humiliating a woman, woman giving a blowjob How many years of your dad grooming did you have to endure? If someone said the same story you said, would you name that as grooming? Why to you turn against yourself though? You are not the monster, you father is psychopath, sadistic and Machiavellian. They call that the "dark triad" in psychology. There is a delight you father feels in harming ...